Going with the Flow, Knowing What to Do and What Not to Do: Insights from Hexagram 17, Sui (Following)
One of the greatest wisdoms in life is not forcing the world to change, but learning to move with the current.
Hexagram 17, Sui (Following) in the I Ching is dedicated to the wisdom of “following”: When should you follow? Whom should you follow? How should you follow? And when should you not follow?
True “following” is not blind obedience, but going with the flow, acting purposefully, and knowing what not to do.
1. The Core of Hexagram Sui: The Ability to Move with the Current
In nature:
- Water flows with the terrain
- Grass bends with the wind
- Birds migrate with the seasons
If a person goes against the current, the cost is enormous; moving with the current often yields twice the result with half the effort.
Hexagram Sui teaches us: True success comes from following correctly.
2. Line 1 (Initial Nine): Going Out to Make Connections Brings Merit — Keep Up with the Times
Insight: When the world changes, you must step out.
The first line points out: positions, environments, and eras will all change.
When circumstances shift:
- Take the initiative to network
- Understand trends
- Engage with new opportunities
In the workplace:
- Those who shut themselves off are easily eliminated
- Those who actively connect with the world are more likely to succeed
The first step of going with the flow is to go out.
3. Line 2 (Six in the Second Place): Bound to the Young, Losing the Mature — Choosing the Wrong Circle
Insight: Following the wrong people is more dangerous than not trying.
If you spend long periods with:
- Negative people
- Short-sighted people
- Dishonest people
You will lose opportunities to connect with outstanding individuals.
One of the most important choices in life: Who you walk with.
4. Line 3 (Six in the Third Place): Bound to the Mature, Losing the Young — Follow the Excellent
Insight: Stay away from petty people, and follow the strong.
When you follow excellent leaders and outstanding teams:
- You learn faster
- You grow faster
- You gain more opportunities
In the workplace:
Choosing the right platform is often more important than individual effort.
5. Line 4 (Nine in the Fourth Place): Following Brings Gain, but Persistence Leads to Misfortune — Do Not Blindly Follow the Crowd
Insight: Not all “success” is right.
Sometimes:
- Following trends can make money
- Going with the flow can bring profit
But if it violates principles:
Short-term gains may bring long-term risk.
True following is:
- Going with the current
- Holding to integrity
- Walking the bright, righteous path
6. Line 5 (Nine in the Fifth Place): Sincere in the Good, Good Fortune — Commit to a Righteous Cause
Insight: Pursue a noble undertaking.
When you devote yourself to:
- A righteous cause
- A worthwhile goal
- An organization of integrity
Moving with the current becomes good fortune in life.
This is the golden stage of Hexagram Sui.
7. Top Line (Six at the Top): Bound and Held Fast — Maintain a Hard-Won Favorable Situation
Insight: After success, it is even more important to preserve it.
When you have:
- A stable career
- A mature team
- A favorable situation
What you need is not radical risk-taking, but:
- Protecting achievements
- Bonding people together
- Leading with virtue
True leadership means making more people willing to follow.
8. Summary of Hexagram Sui’s Workplace Wisdom
- Keep up with the times
- Stay away from the wrong circles
- Follow outstanding people
- Go with the current but hold to principles
- Commit to righteous causes
- Preserve success and unite people
This is a complete path of professional growth.
9. Conclusion: Following Is the Highest Form of Initiative
True “going with the flow” is not passive.
Instead, it is:
See the trend → Choose the direction → Move with the current → Uphold principles
Hexagram Sui tells us:
Moving with the current is wisdom; holding to integrity is character.
When you learn “what to do and what not to do,” life will enter the path of smooth flow.