睽卦的卦象是火在上，泽水在下，上下不容易融合、调剂，观点有可能不统一，观点不同就容易产生问题，不易成功。 占得此卦之人，应该学习、练习友善、宽容的好品格，不要让表面的相同和不同所迷惑，做不必要的争执。尽量做到求同存异。对人要阳光，和善，用大家都接受的方式让事情慢慢地向自己想要的方向发展。 如果时机不成熟，不要强求、蛮干，可以先做一些大家都接受的小事。 占得此卦之人，要提高自己的见地，做到视野开阔，做事从大处着眼，小处着手。

Opposition: Reflects conflict, disagreement, and polarization. It advises seeking common ground, fostering understanding, and resolving conflicts through diplomacy and compromise.

The hexagram of the Kui hexagram is fire at the top and swamp at the bottom. It is not easy to integrate and adjust the upper and lower parts. The views may not be unified. Different views may easily cause problems and make it difficult to succeed. People who occupy this hexagram should learn and practice the good character of friendliness and tolerance, and should not be confused by superficial similarities and differences and cause unnecessary disputes. Try to seek common ground while reserving differences. Be sunny and kind to people, and use a method acceptable to everyone to slowly make things develop in the direction you want. If the time is not right, don't force or act recklessly. You can do some small things that everyone accepts first. People who occupy this hexagram should improve their perspective, have a broad vision, think big and start small when doing things.

遇到坏人、恶人，没有过错。 受到恶人欺压、敲诈，要机智地化解，以避免、减少更大的损失。 不要自不量力，一味地对抗、蛮干，想要夺回损失，结果受到更大的伤害。 时候未到，不可强求。力量不够时，需要隐忍，恶人早晚会受到惩罚！ 遇到恶人，是要检验自己是否机智，有能力化恶于无形。

上班侍候老板，没想到下班后，在一个小巷子里又遇到了老板！ 虽然对老板有一些微言，但是既然在小地方遇上了，那么继续做出毕恭毕敬的样子吧。 我不向老板毕恭毕敬，难道要老板向我毕恭毕敬吗？ 上下、尊卑有序，这是正道和常理啊。

大雨天，看到车子陷入了泥水。 拉车的牛使劲地拉，可怜的车夫遭受过割鼻的刑罚，车夫也在使劲地推车，一不小心还摔了个仰八叉。 人世之苦，莫过如此。不过，总有天晴的时候，总有路干、车行的时候。 路滑车陷，是因为出门的时机不好。 谁都会遇到一时的困难，人生本来如此。

见识短浅，孤陋寡闻之人，适合遇到有智慧、有见识的人，以此提高见识，增长知识。 诚信地和人交往，愿意学习，向有见识的上等人请教，虽然自己处境艰难，也没有过错，没有担忧。 以诚信和人交往，积极向上，交游、学习，没有过错。

有时候，和自己同种、同族的人反而难以合作，相处不好。 如此种姓相同，又有何益？还不如分开，少在一起纠缠。 表面上看上去很好，实际相处不来，还不如分开，早早放手。 如此不仅没有过错，还是值得庆贺的事情。

好比是见识短浅，孤陋寡闻，没有信心和胆识之人，办事情总是疑神疑鬼。 天色向晚，恍恍惚惚间，忽然看到一只满身泥泞的猪，拉着一车子鬼！ 见鬼了！慌忙张弓搭箭，要来射车上的鬼！ 后来再定一定神，原来是猪拉了一车子稻草人！于是放下了弓箭！这都什么事？！ 原来是胆小鬼遇到了一只满身泥泞的猪！ 所以最好是下一场大雨，让这个胆小鬼清醒清醒！顺便把猪身上的泥泞冲洗一下！ 于是真相大白，冲洗了猪泥，没有了泥猪，消失了本来就没有的鬼，猪是一只平平常常的猪。 俗话说，这世上本没有鬼，既然是有了疑神疑鬼的人，于是这世上就有了鬼！ 心存正念，群鬼亡也！

There is no fault when you encounter bad or evil people. If you are oppressed or blackmailed by evil people, you must resolve it tactfully to avoid or reduce greater losses. Don't overestimate your capabilities, blindly resist, act recklessly, and try to regain losses, only to suffer greater harm. Don't force it before the time comes. When you are not strong enough, you need to be patient. The evildoers will be punished sooner or later! When you encounter evil people, you need to test whether you are resourceful and capable of turning evil into something invisible.

I was serving on my boss at work, but I didn’t expect to meet my boss again in an alley after get off work! Although I have some complaints about the boss, since I met him in a small place, let’s continue to be respectful. If I don’t show respect to my boss, do I need my boss to show respect to me? There is an order between superiors and subordinates, superior and inferior. This is the right way and common sense.

On a heavy rainy day, I saw my car stuck in muddy water. The oxen pulling the cart pushed hard, and the poor driver had his nose cut off. The driver also pushed the cart hard, and accidentally fell down. There is no greater suffering in this world than this. However, there are always times when the weather is sunny and there are times when the roads are dry and the cars are moving. The road slides and sinks because the timing of going out is bad. Everyone will encounter temporary difficulties, life is like this.

People who are short-sighted and ignorant are suitable to meet wise and knowledgeable people, so as to improve their knowledge and increase their knowledge. Deal with people honestly, be willing to learn, and seek advice from knowledgeable and superior people. Although you are in a difficult situation, you are not at fault or worried. Communicate with people with integrity, be positive, socialize, learn, and make no mistakes.

Sometimes, it is difficult for people of the same race and ethnicity to cooperate and get along with each other. What's the benefit of being of the same caste? It's better to separate and stay less entangled together. They look good on the surface, but if they actually can't get along, it's better to separate and let them go early. Not only is there nothing wrong with this, it is also something worth celebrating.

It's like a person who is short-sighted, ignorant, has no confidence and courage, and is always suspicious of things. It was getting late, and in a daze, I suddenly saw a muddy pig pulling a cart of ghosts! Damn it! He hurriedly drew his bow and arrow to shoot the ghost on the car! Later, I regained my composure and realized that it was a pig pulling a cart of scarecrows! So I put down my bow and arrow! What's all this about? ! It turns out that the coward encountered a muddy pig! So it would be best if it rained heavily to wake up this coward! By the way, rinse the mud off the pig! Then the truth came out, the pig mud was washed away, the mud pig disappeared, and the ghost that never existed disappeared. The pig was just an ordinary pig. As the saying goes, there are no ghosts in this world. Since there are suspicious people, there are ghosts in this world! With righteous thoughts in mind, the ghosts will perish!