蹇卦的卦象是山上有水,水在上方和前方,坎卦还象征危险,水让山路泥泞难行,前行会有困难,和潜在的危险。
古时候西南方向气候温暖、湿润,容易获得瓜果食物,因而容易生存。所以对于职业规划来说,应该尽量选择向条件好的地方和行业去发展。
困难的时候,应该先寻找有利于自己的环境时机,并且争取得到有地位、有见识、有能力的大人物的帮助,如此才有利于成功。
占得此卦的人,应该多多练习技能,改善自己的性格,多结交有地位、有能力、有见识的人做为朋友。在职业、事业方面,要多方调查、研究,寻找、确定一个好的职业方向,然后坚定信念,在朋友和贵人的帮助下克服困难,一定会取得成功。
蹇卦。这是一个讲“困境之中,如何应对”的卦。蹇,字面义为“跛脚”,引申为“前行受阻”,但它蕴藏的智慧是:身陷困顿不等于失败,关键是以柔克刚、审时应变、借力求通。
一、蹇卦总览
卦名:蹇(jiǎn)
卦序:第39卦
卦象:水山蹇(上坎☵,下艮☶)
关键词:艰难、受阻、求助、因势利导、退而求进
卦辞原文:
蹇:利西南,不利东北。利见大人,贞吉。
二、卦辞浅释
“蹇:利西南,不利东北。利见大人,贞吉。”
“蹇”:原意是行走困难,比喻处境艰难、进退维艰;
“利西南,不利东北”:象征退避现实、绕道前行可得利;盲目进取反而不利;
“利见大人”:遇到困境,要向有德有能之人求助;
“贞吉”:坚持正道,即使在困局中,也能最终转吉。
📌 通俗解读:遇阻不要硬冲,退后求助、绕道而行、守正不偏,反能走出困境。
三、卦象分析:水山蹇(上坎下艮)
上卦坎:象征水、陷阱、危险;
下卦艮:象征山、止步、阻碍;
水在山上:水欲下流而山阻其路,比喻“欲行而不能”,身陷困境之象。
🧠 象征意义:面对困境,要懂得止步、回避正面冲撞,寻找智慧出路。
四、六爻爻辞解析(核心智慧)
初六:往蹇,来誉。
✅ 解读:若在困境中仍执意前行,只会更加艰难;但若适时后退、收敛锋芒,反而得人称赞。
六二:王臣蹇蹇,匪躬之故。
✅ 解读:有德之人即使身处困境,也为他人奔走、不顾己身,是尽忠职守的表现。
九三:往蹇,来反。
⚠️ 解读:如果固执地往前走,困难会加剧;此时不如回头反思、调整方向。
六四:往蹇,来连。
✅ 解读:困局之中若主动与人结盟、团结协作,反而可以解决困难。强调“合作”的力量。
九五:大蹇,朋来。
✅ ✅ 解读:处境艰难到极点时,朋友或贵人将出现,转危为安。得人之助是关键。
上六:往蹇,参复。
⚠️ 解读:仍欲前行会遭反复之灾,此时要特别谨慎,避免旧病重犯、错误重演。
五、蹇卦的应用智慧
🏠 家庭生活中
家庭成员之间若出现沟通受阻、误会频发,宜先冷静暂停,不要硬碰硬;
如夫妻矛盾、代际冲突,可通过第三方(长辈、心理咨询)来化解,“利见大人”;
强调在家庭中遇到僵局时,“绕一绕,别死扛”,是解决问题的智慧。
💼 职场与事业中
蹇卦适用于项目遇阻、升职受挫、人际不顺等情况;
此时不宜强行推进,而应考虑退让调整策略、另辟蹊径;
寻找经验丰富的领导、同事帮助(利见大人);
明智的做法不是逞强,而是巧借外力、积蓄后劲。
🤝 人际关系中
蹇卦强调:在人际关系紧张时,要避免正面冲突;
适当“退一步”、降低攻击性,能赢得人心;
通过“来连”“朋来”,说明合作、团结、化敌为友比独斗强。
🧘♂️ 个人成长中
人生阶段性陷入“蹇滞”时,是反思和调整的时机:
可能是方向选错了;
也可能是急于求成、独断专行所致;
学会放慢节奏、借助外力、调整心态,是走出低谷的法门;
如《易经》所说:“困而不失其所亨者,唯君子也。”
六、蹇卦智慧总结
项目 内容
卦义 前行受阻、处境艰难
核心智慧 退中求进、借力脱困、守正待时
最忌 固执冒进、单打独斗
最佳策略 回头调整、结伴同行、善用贵人
应用场景 事业受阻、人际僵局、心理困顿、关系修复
“蹇之道,不在蛮撞,而在智转。”
——真正的强者,懂得在不利中审时度势,借势而行。
Obstruction: Represents obstacles, challenges, and setbacks. It advises perseverance, patience, and strategic planning to overcome barriers and achieve success.
The symbol of the Jian Gua is that there is water on the mountain, and the water is above and in front of it. The Kan Gua also symbolizes danger. The water makes the mountain road muddy and difficult to travel, and there will be difficulties and potential dangers when moving forward. In ancient times, the climate in the southwest was warm and humid, and fruits and vegetables were easily available, making it easy to survive. Therefore, for career planning, you should try to choose places and industries with good conditions to develop. When you are in trouble, you should first look for an environment that is conducive to you, and seek help from important people with status, knowledge, and ability. Only in this way can you succeed. People who occupy this hexagram should practice more skills, improve their character, and make more friends with status, ability, and knowledge. In terms of career, you need to investigate and research in many ways to find and determine a good career direction, and then strengthen your faith and overcome difficulties with the help of friends and noble people, and you will definitely achieve success.
The symbol of the Jian Gua is that there is water on the mountain, and the water is above and in front of it. The Kan Gua also symbolizes danger. The water makes the mountain road muddy and difficult to travel, and there will be difficulties and potential dangers when moving forward. In ancient times, the climate in the southwest was warm and humid, and fruits and vegetables were easily available, making it easy to survive. Therefore, for career planning, you should try to choose places and industries with good conditions to develop. When you are in trouble, you should first look for an environment that is conducive to you, and seek help from important people with status, knowledge, and ability. Only in this way can you succeed. People who occupy this hexagram should practice more skills, improve their character, and make more friends with status, ability, and knowledge. In terms of career, you need to investigate and research in many ways to find and determine a good career direction, and then strengthen your faith and overcome difficulties with the help of friends and noble people, and you will definitely achieve success.
做事情的时候有很多困难,但是如果坚持下来,能够圆满完成,就能享有荣誉!
好比是千辛万苦、勇往直前地出征,最终旗开得胜,凯旋归来,荣誉加身!
应该照这种不畏艰难的心态和方式干事业、做事情。
主角和配角都不知道怎么干一件事。
好比是一道菜,大厨和帮厨都不知道怎么做,那是因为以前没有亲自做过的缘故啊。
凡事要亲历亲为,然后才能得心应手!
遇到困难,只要愿意学习、亲自动手,反复实践就没有忧虑,不愁干不好!
遇到很大的阻力和困难,决定放弃,只要内心坦然接受,也是好的结果。
离开前往的时候很难,半途中想要回来也不容易!
可见当前所在的位置还是有一些吸引力和实力的!
珍惜当下!珍惜拥有!
遇到大困难的时候,刚好有朋友来帮忙。何其幸哉!
有大难的时候,必须寻求帮助。通过团队的力量来解决困难。
平时要多多行善,积累仁德,这样自己有困难的时候,别人才愿意伸出援手!这就是注重中道、仁慈、品行的修身原则。
做大事业肯定不会一帆风顺。
通过长久的努力,完成后收获硕果!吉祥!
应该寻求大人物的意见和建议,建立起强大、有力的团队,如此有利于客服困难,事业成功。
真正的硕果,是内部的修行,增长内心智慧:
志在内也。
There are many difficulties when doing things, but if you persevere and complete them successfully, you will be honored!
It's like going out on an expedition with great hardships and courage, and finally winning the battle and returning triumphantly, with great honor!
We should do business and do things according to this mentality and method of not being afraid of difficulties.
Neither the main character nor the supporting characters know how to do the same thing.
It's like a dish that neither the chef nor the assistant chef knows how to make. That's because they haven't cooked it themselves before.
You have to experience everything yourself before you can master it!
When encountering difficulties, as long as you are willing to learn, do it yourself, and practice repeatedly, you will have no worries or worry about not doing well!
If you encounter great resistance and difficulties and decide to give up, as long as you accept it calmly, it will be a good result.
It’s hard to leave and it’s not easy to come back halfway!
It can be seen that the current location still has some attraction and strength!
Cherish the moment! precious to have!
When you encounter big difficulties, you just have friends to help you. What a blessing!
When you are in trouble, you must seek help. Solve difficulties through teamwork.
You should do a lot of good deeds and accumulate kindness, so that when you are in trouble, others will be willing to lend a helping hand! This is the principle of self-cultivation that focuses on moderation, kindness, and character.
Building a big business will definitely not be easy.
Through long-term efforts, you will reap the fruits after completion! auspicious!
You should seek the opinions and suggestions of big people and build a strong and powerful team, which will help customers overcome difficulties and achieve successful business.
The real fruit is internal practice and the growth of inner wisdom:
The ambition is within.